11 Unconventional Ways to Begin Your Wedding or Elopement Day with Intention
You’ve probably been asking yourself, “how do I start my wedding day?” Your wedding day marks the start of an incredible journey, and what better way to kick off this momentous occasion than with intentional, untraditional experiences that set the tone for the day ahead? Don’t forget to bring your photographer (me) along on your adventure. Here are five unique ideas to infuse your wedding or elopement morning with deep connection, relaxation, and meaning:
1. Shared Breakfast or Coffee
Begin your day with a private moment of tranquility. Share a quiet breakfast or coffee with your partner, away from the hustle and bustle. This is your time to discuss your intentions for the day and ground yourselves in the significance of the commitment you're making. As you savor each sip or bite, relish in the anticipation of the beautiful moments ahead.
2. Get Ready Together
While the anticipation of a first look is undoubtedly exhilarating, imagine spending your entire day with your person by your side. Getting ready together cultivates a sense of unity, shared excitement, and a beautifully intimate experience. The process of helping each other prepare for the day becomes a memorable part of your wedding story.
3. Exchange Letters
If you're choosing not to see each other before the ceremony, exchanging heartfelt letters at the beginning of your wedding day is a touching way to connect. As you read each other's words, you'll feel the love and emotion that surrounds you, even in those moments you're physically apart. These letters will become cherished keepsakes, a testament to the unique bond you share.
4. Morning Massage
Embrace relaxation and pampering by starting your day with a couple's massage. If time permits, indulge in the luxury of a massage that eases any pre-wedding jitters and centers your energy. Some massage therapists offer on-site services, allowing you to enjoy the soothing benefits without leaving the comfort of your preparation space.
5. Take a Swim
Dive into marriage both metaphorically and literally by beginning your day with a refreshing swim. Whether it's in a pool or a natural body of water, a leisurely swim with your partner fosters a sense of playfulness and relaxation. Floating in the water together allows you to symbolically wash away any nerves and immerse yourselves in the excitement of the day.
6. Morning Yoga or Meditation
Begin your day with a peaceful practice of yoga or meditation. Find a serene spot, whether indoors or outdoors, and take the time to center yourselves. This gentle and mindful start to your morning will bring a sense of calm and clarity, setting a positive tone for the rest of the day.
7. Share a Sunrise
If you're early birds, consider watching the sunrise together. Find a scenic location where you can witness the beauty of the first light of day. This symbolic start represents the dawn of a new chapter in your lives. As the sky transforms, let the moment remind you of the promise and adventure that lies ahead.
8. Outdoor Adventure
If you and your partner love the outdoors, plan an outdoor adventure before your wedding festivities. Whether it's a morning hike, a leisurely bike ride, or a paddle on a tranquil lake, this active start to your day can be invigorating and inspiring. The fresh air and natural surroundings will invigorate your spirits and create lasting memories.
9. Shared Creative Activity
Engage in a creative activity that holds meaning for both of you. Whether it's painting, crafting, or writing a poem together, this shared experience allows you to express your feelings and create something special. The process of creating together fosters collaboration and a deeper connection.
10. Volunteer or Give Back
Start your wedding day by giving back to your community. Volunteer for a cause that resonates with you as a couple. This act of selflessness not only sets a positive tone for your day but also reinforces the values and compassion you share. Knowing you're making a difference together will add a sense of fulfillment to your wedding day.
11. Couples Boudoir/STEAMY Session
Embrace the intimacy and connection with a couples boudoir session. Prior to the wedding chaos, take time to capture your love in a sensual and artistic way. A boudoir session allows you both to celebrate your bodies and the passion you share. This unique and private experience can be a powerful way to bond and create memories that are both beautiful and intimate. It's a reminder of the deep connection that brought you to this special day and sets the tone for a day of love and celebration.
Your wedding day is a celebration of love, commitment, and the unique bond you share. By embracing these untraditional and intentional ways to start your day, you're infusing your wedding with your authentic selves. These moments become a reflection of your journey together and set the stage for a day filled with genuine connection and unforgettable memories.
Meet Your Photographer
I'm Milly, and I'm all about celebrating love in its many beautiful forms. 🏳️🌈 As your elopement photographer, I'm here to capture those real, raw, and utterly joyful moments that make your story unique. From the cozy cabin boudoir session to the heart-pounding vow exchange, I'll be right by your side, turning these memories into timeless art. Let's make your wedding or elopement an unforgettable experience that's as special as you are. Get in touch today to chat about how we can turn your love story into visual magic that'll last a lifetime!